Modern loneliness masks hyperconnectivity: Gen Z struggles to build real connections because they lack everyday social practice, eye contact, and physical presence. Without friction and real-world interaction, dating feels like a high-stakes performance rather than natural discovery. Esther Perel reveals how digital communication strips away the elements that create true intimacy—tone, touch, shared energy—leaving people more isolated despite constant connection. Gen Z's dating struggles stem from missing decades of childhood social practice; most delay romantic experiences until 24-26, attempting complex relationships with the experience level of 15-year-olds.