French parenting is caught between two fierce philosophies: traditional discipline-focused methods versus American-style gentle parenting. A psychologist named Caroline Goldman sparked a national debate arguing positive parenting has gone too far, while 280+ experts counter that firm boundaries harm children. The clash reveals deeper questions about childhood's place in society. French parents feel caught between contradictory advice: be firmer yet more empathetic, say no yet explain rules positively, leaving many overwhelmed and lost about the right approach.